I have a history of not waking up on time. The problem started when I was a teenager, and everyone thought it was just a phase. “She’ll grow out of it,” they said. “What teenager gets up early anyway?”
By my 20s, however, it was clear that I am, by nature, not a morning person. I went through several alarm clocks trying to find the perfect one. Nothing worked.
This greatly annoyed my then-new Naval-Academy-trained husband, who can wake up to the faintest of wrist-watch alarms at 4 a.m. if he has to.
When I had my first child at age 24, everyone thought my sleepy-morning days were over. No more hitting snooze. No more asking people not to talk to me for 30 minutes and until I had eaten my morning cereal in total silence. A baby, they said, would not put up with these things.
And, as fate would have it, my first baby is, and continues to be, a person who does his best thinking before the sun comes up. Unlike most children who do their homework after school, Ford saves his to do at 5 o’clock the next morning.
My next two babies, Owen and Lindell, are not morning people. They are either blessed or cursed (take your pick) with the ability to pretend mornings don’t even happen. In fact, until last week, Lindell wasn’t aware that the sun rises.
(Here’s where I blame the new dog.)
Sparky wakes up at 5 a.m. Ford lets Sparky out, and in due time, I hear the thump of paws climbing the stairs outside my bedroom. My new (successful) alarm clock: a wet dog nose and bad breath.
Since we got Sparky in October, my routine has been to come downstairs, put out the dog food bowl, and fall back asleep on the living room couch. Meanwhile, Ford does his homework and reads his books. Last week, however, for reasons I will never understand, Lindell woke up at 5 a.m., too. He wanted waffles. Then he wanted Cheerios. While Lindell slurped his milk, Ford introduced him to the world of morning. “You’ll see the sun rise out the window soon,” Ford said.
Lindell dropped his spoon. “The sun rises?” he asked.
“Yep, and you’ll start to hear birds, too,” Ford said.
I worried that Ford was making this sound like too much fun.
And sure enough, later that day, Lindell said, “Can we do that middle-of-the-night thing together again?”
“What middle-of-the-night thing?”
“You know, where Ford and I watch the sun and you make us breakfast?”
“That’s not a good routine, Lindell,” I said.
“I kind of liked having company,” Ford said.
“So can we do it, Mom?”
The next morning, I woke up to Sparky’s breath and Lindell’s smiling face at the side of my bed. “Time to do that thing where we sit in the dark, Mom,” he said.
“How about we sleep in the dark, Lindell?”
Two minutes later, I was making waffles and waiting for the sun to rise.
“I like our new routine,” Lindell said.
I didn’t answer. I was still half asleep.