Think outside the Valentine’s Day box for gifts that thoughtfully express the value of your sweetheart.

No one wants you to go into debt (or buy on credit) for a gift that is more than you can afford. Begin with a handwritten (or typed in a fancy font) letter. Show your love for that special someone with words and sharing memories and the little things you love about them. It will impress your Valentine that you remember what first attracted them to you, the seemingly mundane things that they do for you which makes your life easier, and what you look forward to sharing with them in the future.

If you want to wrap something, think of gifts you can enjoy together, like tickets to a play, arranging a sitter so you can enjoy a picnic in the park, or a book you can read together. Do be romantic, of course — no blenders! (Unless your Valentine is like me and receiving a new one in a box is on their wish list.)

Consider giving a tree, seeds, garden or patio furniture or a nice planter to enjoy for the spring and summer to come. If you need more inspiration, think of the gifts most appreciated and utilized from past holidays. Tune into the daily routine of your Valentine and choose small luxuries or thoughtful deeds you can do. Gifts of service are long-remembered. Tackle a few of the “honey-do’s” or “to-do’s” your Valentine has. Nothing says romance like more free time and the good feelings generated by a lighter chore list.

Other great gift ideas include the surprise of music CDs awaiting them in their car, a letter mailed to their home from you, a photo collage in a frame or useful item such as a coffee mug, or a “coupon book” you construct full of certificates for events, tasks, and treats you know they’d love. Take your sweetheart on a Valentine tour, treating them to goodies, frugal (or window) shopping of their choice, and anywhere else the two of you can enjoy some time together.

Valentines for the kids: Create a gift that can be treasured for days and years to come. A letter from you in the form of a Valentine will brighten your child’s day. These notes of love and your inclusion of what you love about them most at this stage in their life will be keepsakes.

Gifts which will encourage you to spend time with them are the best. Card games, building kits, crafts and puzzles give all of you something to look forward to. Kids love “coupon books” from Mom and Dad — what a great way to plan (and save up) for memory-making days to come. Valentine’s Day activities with the kids can include a scavenger hunt for hearts, candy or small gifts.

However you spend your Valentine’s Day, be sure to spread extra random acts of kindness around. Doing so warms your heart on a winter day.

Amy Hannold is a money-saving mentor, coordinator of the North Whidbey Coupon Club, the proud wife of a retired Navy Chief and a busy mom. Her columns appear the second Friday of each month. Send your questions to Hannold via email at ahannold@comcast.net.